Perhaps the sweetest of all the wedding day rituals is the first dance as a newly married couple.

It recalls our thoughts of romance and permanence. But, it can also be a source of stress for the couple involved if they have not spent any time preparing beforehand.

Consider partner dancing is a skill like any other and with a minimum of practice and preparation, any couple can take the spotlight with confidence and grace on their big day.

So, think about how you should prepare, and what your options are and where you should start?

Here are some tips and suggestions that will help you make this moment fun and special.

Have you chosen a song for your first dance?

If you have not yet chosen a song, you may want to consider what type of dance you would like to do and work backwards from there.

Think about would you want the classic romance of a waltz, or would you prefer a relaxed and jazzy foxtrot?

Maybe the high-spirited energy of a swing dance or the intensity of an Argentine Tango is more your style.

If you take pleasure in Latin rhythms you may like a slow rumba or a lively salsa. And a simple slow dance is always an option. Please bear in mind that some dance styles are easier to learn than others, so time may be a factor in your decision.

Will the band be playing your song or will you be dancing to a recording?

This decision will also affect what song you choose.

Songs such as "Our Love is Here to Stay", "It Had to be You", and "Time after Time" are standards that every jazz band should be able to play for you if you let them know in advance.